Thursday, August 30, 2007
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
- Something to Hide – “If he doesn't have a photo posted, or his photo is so fuzzy or far away even his mother can't recognize it, or he's wearing big sunglasses that show off his body but hide his identity, chances are he doesn't look like the picture.”
- One-Track Profile – You know the type. His profile describes -- and requests -- the perfect man. He must have everything from a six pack to 9 inches of dick to being a thug and ultra masculine. In other words, none of his words are about whether his Mr. Right is well read, well mannered or cares about the homeless. Character isn't a factor as long as he resembles Tupac or LL Cool J . And what sort of activities does he enjoy doing with his homey? Movies? No, no and no. He's looking for sex. Buyer beware.
- Busy Signal – He leads such a full, happy life it's too much bother to complete the online questionnaire. Question after question is followed with the answer "Will Discuss Later."If he's too lazy to be thoughtful for a few minutes, it gets my antenna up. Again, remember that this is the courtship phase. If he can't muster the energy to type complete sentences, his inaction might spell P-A-S-S.
- Just looking for some Friends – That is, the dude you like and who claims to like you too, but they still spend much of their free time online on dating sites trying to meet new people. I have had that in the past and it's always the same, they say they are just being friendly and making "friends" to get to know.
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
- YOUR HAND IS A FABULOUS TOOL DURING SEX. A hand job is a great lead in to oral sex. You never want to make a tight, clenched fist when holding and stroking the penis. Instead, you want to make an “O” shape with your hand around the penis. Again, never grabbing tightly, but loosely grasping. Slowly began stroking the penis, moving your hand from the shaft of the penis to the tip. Tighten your grip as your hand slides up to the penis tip.
- USING YOUR HAND IS HELPFUL FOR TWO REASONS: it is a good start to a blow job and if for some reason you are unable to fully accept a penis in your mouth, you can “fake” the acceptation by using your mouth on the tip of the penis and using your hand along the rest.
- WHEN YOU ARE FINALLY READY TO TAKE THE PENIS IN YOUR MOUTH REMEMBER NOT TO USE YOUR TEETH. Pretend you are imitating a person without teeth, hence “gumming”. By doing this you can avoid using your teeth.
- DO NOT TRY AND TAKE THE ENTIRE PENIS IN YOUR MOUTH @ ONCE – that is unless you know you do not have any sort of gag reflex. Take a little at a time, sucking and massaging the penis with your tongue. When you are ready, go down a bit further. Once you have perfected your blow job techniques you will be able to suck on the penis while massaging and caressing the penis with your tongue. It really can be a mouthful a first.
- LICKING THE BOTTOM SIDE OF THE PENIS, CLOSE TO TESTICLES WITH JUST A TIP OF THE TONGUE IS HIGHLY EFFECTIVE. Flicking that area with the tongue is highly stimulating for the male. Gently suck on your partner’s balls. (THIS IS NOT RECOMMENDED FOR EVERYONE).
Monday, August 27, 2007
Sunday, August 26, 2007
Friday, August 24, 2007
When I'm feeling blue,
I cry...afterwards glad to be alive.
Hoping to share my life with you,
Free to express my feelings...of wanting happiness.
A Woman, even when you pat my head; also likes roses red..
I have fears but never afraid to shed the tears.
Loving beautiful things: I listen to birds sing.
Not wanting pain - joy comes with a gentle rain.
A Woman cuddled next to you,
But yes, a little girl too.
Enough strength sometimes to ring churchbell chimes...
But needing comfort by her side;
Your power like a roaring tide.
With a morning sunrise - awake with a sparkle in the eye.
A bit shy I am - afraid to die.
I'm the one who likes to play, waiting to be swept away.
I like to take bubble baths...
And to walk the garden path.
A Woman trying to cope,
Holding onto threads of hope.
Who loves the band?
I, who holds your hand.
A Woman I am by candlelight,
While we share warm delight.
I'm making wishes on stars - trying - without any bars; ice-cream;
And building a dream.
I, who enjoys the train: reliving lifes' joy has all to gain.
Not a toy in this gown of lace; not competing in a race.
Kissing as we walk the county fair...
Lots of love I hold - and want to share.
I am:Butterfly free;
Just simply me.
As a Woman, I stand up to cheer - me...
Woman of the Year!
I - a Woman and proud to be...
The WOMAN I am
Thursday, August 23, 2007
- ¿is your sky cloudy?
- ¿do you feel left out in the rain?
- ¿are you searching for a rainbow?
- ¿do the colors bring you pain?
- ¿is your world is not revolving?
- ¿do you look for the sunshine?
- ¿are you tired of all this living?
- ¿you find it hard to carry on everyday?
- ¿do you see the good within?
- ¿do you think about what life owes you?
- ¿is you heart torn leaving broken forever?
- ¿are your wings useless?
- ¿do you wish you touch and feel something?
- ¿do you wish you can find one place where it all stays and never leaves?
- ¿do you have many questions but no answers?
- ¿do you wish to be free?
- ¿did you wish you had a choice?
- ¿did you turn your back on the world?
- ¿are you worthless?
- ¿are you cold and numb?
- ¿are you losing your grip?
- ¿did someone kill your eternal bliss?
- ¿have you fallen asleep waiting for death to come?
- ¿are you trying to scream and shout?
- ¿have you slipped into the unknown?
- ¿are you a ghost?
- ¿do you know how to love?
- ¿do you know how to feel?
- ¿is there a hole in your being?
- ¿do you wish you had comfort?
- ¿do you wish you had peace?
- ¿do you live for others?
- ¿are you naïve?
- ¿are you falling off?
- ¿are you inconsiderate?
- ¿are you self-absorb?
- ¿are you uncompassionate?
- ¿do you know who you are?
- ¿do you what you have become?
- ¿do you bleed to feel pain?
- ¿are you haunted by the hidden meaning?
- ¿do you know what it means anymore?
- ¿do you want intimacy?
- ¿do you believe in God?
- ¿do you regret the past, present and future?
- ¿do you know to be an adult?
- ¿are you what you hate?
- ¿do you wish you could be what they want you to be?
- ¿are trying to be great in your eyes?
- ¿do you have a life struggle?
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
Monday, August 20, 2007
Sunday, August 19, 2007
- DO YOU REMEMBER THE LAST TIME YOU WERE IN LOVE?
2. WHAT DID IT FEEL LIKE?
3. WHAT EMOTIONS RUSHED THROUGH YOU?
4. DID YOU BURN LIKE FIRE?
5. DID YOUR HEART SKIP A BEAT?
6. DID YOUR STOMACH FEEL ACHY?
7. WHAT WAS IT LIKE?
8. DID YOU TOUCH IT?
9. DID YOU SMELL IT?
10. DID YOU TASTE IT?
11. WAS IT LIKE A COOL BREEZE?
12. DID YOU CUDDLE IT LIKE A NEWBORN?
13. DID YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH THE TRAPPINGS?
14. DID YOU PUT IT ON A PEDESTAL TOO HIGH FOR YOUR REACH?
15. DID YOU LOVE FREELY & UNCONDITIONALLY?
16. DID YOU CONNECT WITH THE SPIRIT OF ANOTHER?
17. WERE YOU AWARE OF LOVE?
18. DID YOU OPERATE IN A MANNER WHERE INFATUATION BECAME PLAYFUL COURTING?
19. WAS YOR LOVE POWERFUL?
20. DID IT TRANSFORM THE SEXUAL ACT INTO A PASSIONATE EXCHANGE OF SPIRITUAL ENERGY?
21. DID YOU LOVE?
Saturday, August 18, 2007
Friday, August 17, 2007
Persons infected are living a life STANDING ON SHIFTED SAND and it is just a matter of time before they are engulfed with no signs of relief. If we that are on the outside looking in decide to lend a helping hand one person @ a time we can defeat this predator. It angers me to realize that WE are WARRIORS that can fight from ALL angles because we do not have the burden of facing this foe; instead, we take on the role of WORRIERS and let this disease attack us. This only proves that the UNEDUCATED needs to be EDUCATED; how can one live not showing concern for their fellow man? The prejudice shown by society needs to STOP and we need to band together to save those that are still in the fight for their lives.
BRING ON THE FUTURE; WE ARE THE NOW! We are the WARRIORS that will do away with the years of limbo past. We WARRIORS will longer live in the twilight zone; staring at empty pages of book that has no answers. This H. I. V. /A. I. D. S. just tumble and jumble throughout the community without a care, destroying lives before they get a chance to fade. This disease gives US a chance to UNDERSTAND and APPRECIATE each other past the FEAR and IGNORANCE. It is so sad that we do not take advantage of that. ALL WE HAVE IS LOSS…OF FAMILY…FRIENDS & LOVE ONES. WHEN ARE WE GOING TO STOP ACCEPTING DEATH & PAIN DUE TO THIS DISEASE?
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
Therefore, I am…
I am because God is.
Do not assume anything about…
You need love for self
To see pass yourself
To recognize that I am not what you say.
Before you step to me
Know who you are.
Before you step to me
Feel who you are.
Makes sure that you can
TOUCH the SPIRIT that roars within,
Be the man that drinks from the fountain of life.
Then you will realize that I am not…
Do you think that your blinders are preventing your seeing me?
I know YOUR pain
It is obvious that it is pigeonholing ME
I have survived REPEATED blows to MY manhood
Both PERSONALLY and HISTORICALLY…
GET PASS YOU and FIND ME!
I possess A HEART
That is available for your display
But you have to OPEN YOUR EYES!
I am you and LOVE is my TRUE nature;
My active energy.
I am the vessel that LIFE flows through
The divine spirit knows itself
And I listen to its voice
Guiding and leading me through life
Thus, I am sustained and fulfilled.
WHAT ARE YOU HIDING? Is it that you
like anal sex? That you like to have sex with women and men alike? That you are
dominant? That you like to be tied-up? TELL ME, WHAT SEXUAL DESIRE
WOULD THE BEWITCHING HOUR FIND YOU SATISFIYING YOURSELF?
It is a fact that WE all have a SECRET
SEXUAL SIDE that is kept hidden from others and sometimes ourselves.
Nonetheless, occasionally that other persona creeps out and we find ourselves
with an itch that has to be scratched no matter what we do or say. Wouldn’t it be nice if WE could
really exercise OUR sexual
desires in OUR way?
Wouldn’t it be easy if OUR life were just for US to live and not anyone else’s?
We are forced to live a life seeking OUR sex
in the dark and it is such a shame that the world cares about with whom I get
horizontal. There are so many blocks and dark turns on the road to SEXUALITY that
it makes us live a double life. It seems to me that sex and sexual matters are
the last taboo in our society. It is one of those things that pushed down,
aside AND is covered up. Often times, people REACT vs. ACT and
they never realize it at the time. Hence, the moment we decide not to give into OUR
SEXUAL DESIRES that is when we need to. No matter what others think
about SEX and the things that come along with it, this side of
us has a life of its own and there is no stopping it. SO WHY NOT OWN
YOUR SEX & NOT LET OTHERS TAKE CONTROL?
We human beings are covering the parts of ourselves that we
have in common, but do not know it because we are too busy hiding from it. We
are all a part of the NORMAL and ABNORMAL part
of the SEXUAL REALM, whatever GUILT comes
from the ENJOYMENT of SEXUAL PLEASURE should
be honored and not seen as something horrible. Therefore, those that EXPRESS
RESISTANCE really wants to find out what really is going on but are
too afraid to find out. But resisting a part of who you are or think you could
be will only continue to haunt and taunt you. I read somewhere that ‘Both traditional masculine socialization
and patriarchal historical arrangements suppress OUR need for emotional connectedness and
self-disclosure and limit the sexual and intimate scripts available to US in society.’ I immediately thought
about how I was told as a child that if I TURNED GAY that I
would be KILLED. I knew that this is a factor in why so many
of OUR SEXUALITY does not develop past the infancy stage, we
just cradle it and when it is released, it causes a world of harm.
OUR SEX is
just that, so when we ALIENATE it we abandon ourselves. Thus,
the concept of SEXUALITY is a term that used to describe the
troublesome feelings and faulty ideas that is experienced because of a lifelong
limit on SEXUALITY. Hence, this affects ALL of
us in both direct and indirect ways having adverse effects on the social
structure of society. This is why we have the deviation of common sense when it
comes to HOMOSEXUALITY. Sex is OUR fundamental
right to express ourselves in ways we would not ordinarily be able to. We feel
restless from the constant sexual fantasizing and sexual thoughts due to US not
being able to exercise OUR purpose. Hence, most resort to MASTURBATION,
PAID SEX, RAPE or MANIPULATIVE SEX. This is the
reason why happily married or single, powerful or ordinary folk risk personal,
marital, and occupational stability and happiness.
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
MEN WHO CAN TOLERATE THE SENSATION OF TAKING A HARD D!CK UP THE ASS & STILL RETAIN THEIR MASCULINITY IN THE HEAT OF F&CK SESSION ARE NO LESS A MAN THAN THE ONE PROVIDING THE D!CK. so why does this ACT force US to INDULGE in our own SEXAUL DESIRE by ignoring those that SOCIETY says is not worthy to THRUST his D!CK in an ASS? This way of thinking is destructive, and those that are singled out are paying the price. When SEX is on EQUAL footing the SOUL is charged with a UNIQUE SPIRITUAL ENERGY that fills those involve with such SENSATION and AWARENESS. When in the ignorance of SEXUAL GRATIFICATION, FEMININE MEN are depleted and they fade away.
My belief is that ignoring the FEMS by the MEN that seek SELF-SATISFACTION is as simple as relieving oneself on the toilet. If we look at the animal kingdom, they don’t’ just haphazardly have sex, they only get with the best, brightest and strongest male. Hence, why think so HIGHLY about oneself to believe that, you are the best and some FEM guy is not? SEX IS AN ACT PERFORMED WITH A PURPOSE THAT IS UPLIFTING. THIS ACTIVITY DRAINS THE BODY OF ENERGY THAT REVITALIZES BOTH PARTIES. SEX IS LIKE A GOOD MEAL; THAT REQUIRES EVERYTHING ON THE PLATE TO BE EATEN. WHEN WE ONLY EAT HALF OF THE MEAL WE DEMINISH THE PHYSICAL CONNECTION THAT MEN MAKE WITH EACH OTHER.
Sunday, August 12, 2007
I REMEMBER...We had such a powerful bond that was much deeper than you or I could have possibly imagined. I love how MY BODY could walk away from YOU and MY HEART would always remain. The connection we had is one that I will never forget; from the moment I knew that I LOVED YOU. I know that I had glimpsed YOU before, I always had flashes but I couldn't seem to make out what they were. Then there YOU were; making me do the last thing I thought I would ever do. MY HEART began to give chase like a panther and excitement and joy was all over me. From that moment on I knew that I could not contain MY HEART…WILL YOU RETURN?
JUS' LQQKIN'...I MISS the sweetness of a kiss that ignites the passion between me and you. I MISS the warmth of your touch that always knows how to make me feel good. I MISS the scent of you that always gets me going. I MISS your voice, whispering softly my name. I MISS the taste of your body that is so sweet from head to toe. I MISS looking into your eyes that are so captivating I can’t look away. I MISS feeling close to you, touching the beat of your heart. I MISS the delight of knowing you are satisfied. I MISS that overwhelming feeling, of tensions being eased and released. But most of all; LOVE…I MISS…