Showing posts with label JUS' ECHOING SENTIMENTS.... Show all posts
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Sunday, June 25, 2017

PUTTING PRIDE IN PERSPECTIVE

If you feel abandoned or cut off from spirit of pride, know that it is always there for you waiting for you to plug back in.

There may be times when we feel like our connection to the pride universe is closed. Maybe things don't seem to be going well in our day, or our lives, or we may feel out of our element. The truth is, this universe is always there for us. We know that we create our experience with our thoughts, and this is another way we need to make a conscious decision about how we want to experience life.
 It is up to us to do the work of making the connection, because nobody can do it for us, though sometimes this universe may send us wake-up calls. It takes much less energy to tap into the pride each of carry than to wait an entire year to celebrate who we are.


Sunday, June 11, 2017

¡LET YOUR PRIDE SHINE!

At times, we've all wanted to crawl under a rock and hide away from the world. We may have preferred to be invisible rather than let other people see us or notice that we exist. This desire not to be seen often happens when we are feeling very hurt, angry, or simply weary of the world. And while we may console ourselves with the defense that we are shy, an introvert, or a loner, we may actually be hiding.

When we hide and make believe that we are invisible, we can think that we no one sees us even though, truthfully, we are only really hiding from ourselves. And while we may try to live life as inconspicuously as possible, we only succeed in becoming more conspicuous because people can't help but notice that we are trying to hide our light. None of us are meant to hide; each one of us radiates a unique brilliance that is meant to illuminate the world. When we try to dim our light, we diminish the natural radiance of the Universe, and we deprive the people around us of the unique gifts and talents that we are here to share.

Stepping out of the wings and letting your light shine is actually a way to serve the planet. We each have a responsibility to contribute to our community, and we do this when we let ourselves be seen. It doesn't do anyone any good when we try to hide.  We are all beings of light and we are here to light the way for each other. When we let ourselves shine, we become a bright mirror that others can see their own reflected brilliance through, and they can't help but want to shine also.  Shine your light out into the world, bless those around you by sharing your gifts, and watch the universe glow.

Sunday, June 4, 2017

GAY PRIDE & THE PURSUIT OF COMMUNITY HAPPINESS...


As we expand beyond the boundaries of our individualistic pursuit of happiness gay pride celebrations can be a welcome reality shift. We often find that it is much easier to be happy when we are motivated in an effort to make the world better in tangible ways, by coming together as a group.

Considering the many benefits of pride celebration, it is surprising that more of us don't devote our lives, or at least some portion of our time, to this community centric need. We don't have to wait for a tragedy to come together, as a community to be a participant within our communities.


The more we promote, applaud, and actively inspire this community minded sentiment in the world, the more others will be drawn to this way of being each other’s keepers. Who knows, we might find ourselves paying less attention to sports and celebrity gossip and a little more attention to those everyday heroes who devote their lives to alleviating suffering. The more attention we pay, the more we will inspire others and ourselves to be of service in a community that greatly needs our attention.

Sunday, May 28, 2017

OUR SANCTUARIES: GAY PRIDE CELEBRATIONS...


Each of us has been blessed with an innate need to celebrate and glorify life. At a most basic level, we honor the forces that came together to bring us into being by caring for our mind, bodies and our souls. To truly rejoice in existence, we must also learn to cultivate loveliness in those special places that replenish the soul. When we celebrate gay pride, we are reminded that we are a part of both nature's essence and something more. An outdoor retreat is a place we can surround ourselves in nature, beauty, and the life force. 


In the refuge of brilliant color, sweet scents, and movements we create while celebrating our gay pride, the burdens imposed upon us by a sometimes hectic world melt away. The splendor and tranquility of what we have brought into being will entrance you, allowing you to forget the constraints of time and space. No matter how large or small your celebration is, the time you spend reveling in its pleasures will refresh your spirit and provide you with innumerable opportunities to celebrate life.

Sunday, May 21, 2017

BEING WITNESSED: LETTING YOUR GAY SELF BE SEEN

A powerful healing tool can be allowing yourself to be witnessed by your friends, sharing your pain to a listening audience.

When we allow ourselves to be witnessed by another, we cannot help but be transformed by the experience. Whether we are sharing a personal experience, standing in front of friends to celebrate a special occasion, or expressing our unbridled joy or sorrow in front of a loved one, we are allowing ourselves to be seen and experienced in a very intimate way. Not only are we baring ourselves to someone else, but we are allowing that person to hold a very specific kind of space with us so this powerful act can take place. To be witnessed is to let ourselves be seen as we truly are in that moment.

Our friends and loved ones can easily be witnesses for us, if only we are brave enough to let them.


Sunday, May 7, 2017

FEELING FED UP WITH THE GAY COMMUNITY...

From time to time, we may all feel fed up with our communities, whether it's from learning about what's going on around the world, or what's going on next door. There are always situations that leave us feeling as if we are simply not capable of behaving in a way that is coming from a place of awareness. Often it seems as if we are actually geared to handle things in the worst possible way, repeatedly. At the same time, none of us wants to linger in a judgmental mood about our own. 
It is natural to feel let down when we see persons within the community behaving in ways that are greedy, selfish or uncaring, but there are also ways to process that disappointment without sinking into despondency. As with any emotional response, we honor our feelings by feeling them fully, without judging or acting on them. Once we've done that--and we may need to do it every day, as part of our daily self-care--we can begin to consider ways that we might help the situation in which humanity finds itself.

As always, we start with ourselves, utilizing our awareness of the failings of others to renew our own commitment to be more conscious human beings. We are all capable of the best and the worst that humanity has to offer, and remembering this keeps us in check, as well as allowing us to find compassion for others. We may find ourselves feeling compelled to serve people who are suffering injustices at the hands of other people, or we may begin to speak out when we see something that we don't think is right. Whatever the case, the only thing we can do is pledge to serve the best, rather than the worst, of what humanity has to offer, both in the world, and in ourselves.

Sunday, April 23, 2017

BRAVE SPIRITS...REMEMBERING THE GAY MEN WE ARE

As beings having human experiences we gay men are on an important mission to learn and grow here on earth.

Most of us are familiar with the idea that we are not human beings having spiritual experiences; instead, we are spiritual beings having human experiences. We hear this and even though we may experience a resounding yes in our bodies, we may not take the time to really acknowledge the truth of these statements. Integrating this idea into how we view ourselves can broaden our sense of who we are and help us appreciate ourselves as brave spirits on an important mission to learn and grow here on earth.

We have chosen to be on earth because there is something we want to learn that can only happen by inhabiting a body. Some of us are here to repay a debt, learn about love, or teach forgiveness. Most of us are here for a combination of reasons, we carry this information in our souls, all we have to do is remember.  As you go through your journey, try not to forget how brave you are, being here now.  Honor your gay self.




Sunday, April 9, 2017

CHANGING OTHERS...

If your tendency is to try and change other people, take some time to explore why you feel the need to do so. Our perception of humanity as a whole is, to a large extent, dualistic. We paint people with a broad brush--some are like us, sharing our opinions and our attitudes, while others are different. Our commitment to values we have chosen to embrace is often so strong that we are easily convinced that our way is the right way. We may find ourselves frustrated by those who view the world from an alternate vantage point and make use of unusual strategies when coping with life's challenges. However ardently we believe that these people would be happier and more satisfied following our lead, we should resist the temptation to try to change them. Every human being has been blessed with a unique nature that cannot be altered by outside forces. We are who we are at any one point in our lives for a reason, and no one person can say for certain what another should be like.

The reasons we try to change one another are numerous. Since we have learned over time to flourish in the richness of lives we have built, we may come to believe that we are qualified to speak on behalf of the greater source. The sum total of our knowledge will never compare to what we do not know, however, and our understanding of others' lives will forever be limited. The potential we see in the people who are a part of our lives will never be precisely the same as our own, so we do these individuals a disservice when we make assumptions about their intentions, preferences, and goals. Our power lies in our ability to accept others for all their quirks and differences and to let go of the need to control every element of our existence. We can love people for who they are, embracing their uniqueness, or we can love them as human beings from afar.

Your ability to influence people may grow more sophisticated because others sense that you respect their right to be themselves, but you will likely spend more time gazing inward, into the one person you can change: yourself.

Sunday, April 2, 2017

AWARENESS OF GRATITUDE

Awareness of gratitude will allow you to savor and, above all, appreciate your life with renewed grace. Sometimes we forget to take the time to recognize the richness that defines our lives. This may be because many of the messages we encounter as we go about our affairs prompt us to think about what we don't have rather than all the abundance we do enjoy. 

Consequently, our gratitude exists in perpetual conflict with our desire for more, whether we crave time, convenience, wealth, or enlightenment. Yet understanding and truly appreciating our blessings can be as simple as walking a mile in another's shoes for a short period of time. 

Because many of us lead comparatively insular lives, we may not comprehend the full scope of our prosperity that is relative to our sisters and brothers in humanity.

Sunday, March 26, 2017

BE THE CHANGE...

In order to "be the change we wish to see in the world," 

We must first be clear about what that change looks like, 

And then create new behavior patterns to align with our intention.

Sunday, March 19, 2017

WE SELF-AWARE HUMANS...

Though we humans are self-aware, we nonetheless cannot distance ourselves from the world around us and have a natural tendency to ascribe meaning to all that we experience. The significance we perceive in our experiences is rooted in our observation of patterns as they relate to ourselves.
One situation has the power to teach us about life because it exposes us to something unfamiliar. Another touches our emotions deeply by enabling us to see how fortunate we are. Yet our initial impressions of an experience may not wholly reveal the true significance of that occurrence because our full response to an experience is like an onion with many layers that all have disparate meanings.
Consider that a sunrise may stun us visually while simultaneously evoking memories of childhood and reminding us that each new day is a rebirth.

Sunday, March 12, 2017

NO ONE EXPLICITLY KNOWS OUR PAST...

Unless we decide to share it, but even then our past is a one-sided version of what happened. When you grow up, friends from childhood have a basic understanding of who you are. 

However, when you grow up and move away, you get to start over, for better or worse. If we were more honest about our past, we would see that we all are more alike than we could ever imagine because many of us faced the same discrimination and bullying. 

At the very least we shared the same big secret. 

Sunday, March 5, 2017

FINDING YOUR GAY TRIBE...

We all desire to find our gay tribe, a community of those that feel comfortable to us and nurture our journey. Part of being human is the search for an individual identity. Bound to this strong need to establish a unique persona, however, is an equally intense desire for acceptance. It is when we find our individual gay tribes that both are satisfied. Our gay tribe members are those people who accept us as we are without reservation and gladly accompany us on our journeys of evolution. Among them, we feel free to be our imperfect selves, to engage unabashedly in the activities we enjoy, and to express our vulnerabilities by relying on our gay tribe for support. We feel comfortable investing our time and energy in the members of our gay tribe, and are equally comfortable allowing them to invest their resources in our development.

The individuals who eventually become members of your unique gay tribe are out there in the wide world waiting for you. You are destined to find them, one by one, as you move through life. Sometimes your own efforts will put you in contact with your future gay tribe members. At other times, circumstances beyond your control will play a role in helping you connect with your gay tribe. If you look about you and discover that you are already allied with a wonderful and supportive gay tribe, remember that there are likely many members of your gay tribe you have not yet met. On the other hand, if you feel you are still living outside of your gay tribe, broadening your horizons can help you find your gay tribe members.

However your life develops after you come together with your gay tribe, you can be assured that its members will stand at your side. On the surface, your gay tribe may seem to be nothing more than a loose-knit group of friends and acquaintances to whom you ally yourself. Yet when you look deeper, you will discover that your gay tribe grounds you and provides you with a sense of community that ultimately fulfills many of your most basic human needs.





Sunday, February 26, 2017

NOW IS THE TIME

The time to blossom is now, not sometime in the future when you believe the stars will be aligned for you.

Having a vision for our future that differs from our current circumstances can be inspiring and exciting, but it can also keep us from fully committing to our present placement.

We may become aware that this is happening when we notice our thoughts about the future distracting us from our participation in the moment. We may find upon searching our hearts that we are waiting for some future time or situation in order to self-actualize. This would be like a flower planted in Florida putting off blooming because it would prefer to do so in The Bahamas.

Sunday, February 19, 2017

RECOGNIZING YOUR VALUE...

It can be easy sometimes to buy into the illusion of our own insignificance. We may see large corporations or institutions, celebrities or successful people in our community, and compare ourselves to them, thinking that their fame or material power affirm how little our own lives amount to. But nothing could be further from the truth. 

Every single one of us matters--tremendously. Our very existence affects countless people in countless ways. And because we are each essentially a microcosm of the larger universe, our internal experiences affect the whole of life more than we could ever imagine. The world simply could not exist as it does now if you, or any one of us, were not in it.

Sunday, February 12, 2017

HOMOSEXUALITY IS NOT...


I say that homosexuality is not just a form of sex, it's a form of love - and it commands our respect for that reason.
Christopher Hitchens



Sunday, February 5, 2017

SAMENESS VS. INDIVIDUALITY...

Our very nature is distinctiveness. If we are not true to this nature we do not distinguish ourselves enough. Therefore must we make distinctions of qualities.

What is the harm, ye ask, in not distinguishing oneself? If we do not distinguish, we cannot get beyond our own nature, away from sameness. We will fall into indistinctiveness. 




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