Monday, December 9, 2013


It is certainly the main ingredient of gay sex for most men. But something that is popular isn’t a great experience for all. The anus can provide some amazing sensations during sex when stimulated the right way. If you have had challenges with penetration then these tips will help you take the stress out of the act and put you in a better mind when it comes to back door action.

Don’t Force Him
You may enjoy the Hershey highway but if your partner isn’t in the mood, then back off [ pun intended ]. Anal exploration is best enjoyed when two people are in the same mind frame and are ready to enjoy fully. You can risk injury should you do it just to please your man. And if he is really into you then he will listen. There are always other items on the menu.

Do Use a Lots of Lube
Remember, the anus does not produce its own lubrication like the vagina does, so using plenty of silicone or water based lubricant is very important to creating a safe and comfortable experience. JUS feels silky, doesn’t dry out and never stains your sheets.

Don’t Penetrate Dirty
Sometimes the feeling hits and you just have to do it now. You don’t want to take the time to cleanse yourself but taking the time for proper hygiene will ensure a better experience. An anal douche will gently remove any debris left in the colon. It only takes a few minutes to use. The Calexotics Anal Douche has an easy to squeeze bulb for easy access. Your partner will appreciate a smooth glide that comes from a clean canal.

Do use protection
You may think that wearing a condom for anal sex isn’t necessary since raw sex has become very popular. But the spread of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is actually more likely with anal penetration. The skin around the anal area is thinner and more susceptible to tiny cuts and tears, which allows STIs through. So choose a condom that gives the pleasure you desire with the protection you need. Trojan is a top customer pick. And regardless of what he says, if you are not in a monogamous – tested relationship, you don’t know that he is disease-free.

Do let him set the pace
Make sure you and your partner both enjoy the anal sex experience by letting him call the shots. How fast, how far and how hard are all things that must be up to him. Just because you bring the dick doesn’t give you a right to be insensitive. The bottom always calls the shots. You can’t be as rough or enthusiastic as a man that has vaginal intercourse . Let him get used to it by going slow, and if he says stop, stop immediately.

Don’t Double Dip
Don’t put your penis in his butt and then immediately penetrate another part of his body. It may look cool in the porn movies but it’s not good sexual etiquette. You may have picked up bacteria at the back door that could cause infections elsewhere.

We Need Rules
It may seem like there are a whole lot of rules for something that should be fun, but they really are for your own good. Giving your man a bad anal sex experience can ensure that he doesn’t do it again. Make it good for both of you by following these important dos and don’ts of anal sex.



  1. Excellent! It is a shame that Most Tops do not follow these rules.

  2. I just hate it when a nigga tries to go from zero to ten on me. They just slip in and immediately bang bang bang, smh. Nice n' slow is the way to go.



  3. Great tips & advice! Cleaning the azz out properly can make your experience enjoyable, but a shitty ordeal will end the experience & make me not want to engage in anal intercourse with that one any further. Good anal hygiene is not just the responsibility of the bttm. As a Top I keep Fleets on hand & if you want this dick in your azz then you will have to clean yourself out again when you arrive at my place. Even if you claim you did it before you will do it again. An azz can never be too clean for me. When taking a big dick learn how to breath as that dick enters your anal canal. Take a deep breath! As I enter exhale slowly. This helps reduce to pain of breaking through that ice layer. Once I am in I go slow until that booty says bang it out. Some like it rough & other want it gentle. I can go either way. I just want the experience to be a pleasure for use both.