Wednesday, January 27, 2016


When you think about topping, do you give it much thought? Do you mostly I think, “I’m horny…I need to fuck something” and generally the mindset is to find an ass that catches your attention…get in, unload and get out? But do you know how to effectively make him beg for more?

There’s nothing more annoying than a guy who seems to be unfamiliar with his own dick. Most gay men that top think of himself as the "man" and they are in a position of dominance and power. However, in this “Alpha” position, confidence and self-awareness go a long way.  Know that whether you’re average, hung or super hung, it is really annoying when you’re 6″ and you’re waving it around talking about your 10″ dick.  There’s nothing wrong with a healthy degree of confidence; there are plenty of guys with 5″, 6″ and 7″ cocks who can make a man eyes roll back in their head.  Be confident and be realistic.

So how do you deal with “tops” that are hung or average?

Tops do you know to work your hung or average size packages?


  1. It's like dancing. The Bottom leads the top with his body.

  2. Awesome advice and "food-for-thought" for those who imagine themselves "all-that" but who often leave us wanting more than just a "quickie!" Take care and stay bare!

  3. Let's face it. A lot of gay bottoms are size queens, Not to mention totally insatiable.

    I've stop telling guys my penis size. not because I'm ashamed of it which is an average size, but because when I'm getting to know a dude even if its for just sex I want more connection than just "Let's fuck."

    Guys will play the "Oh yeah I'm really interested in you" game while constantly trying to get penis info out of you.

    It really is annoying. I've had some fun in my day but the more I hooked up the more I saw it for the meat market it is.

    Now don't get me wrong. I know how to satisfy. But the satisfaction I got in return? Minimal.

    The Male Casting Couch