Unconditional love understands that nothing is perfect, yet that imperfection is perfection. Attachment is super critical, judgmental, controlling and serious. If you ever find yourself making decisions for your loved one and or find yourself lecturing them on changing or not meeting your expectations you are or are on the road to suffering.
Unconditional love for another never allows us to go down the road to attachment. It loves all that is, even that weird little toe or skew tooth.
It absolutely loves the sleep marks in the morning and the smell of breakfast, the sound of birds and the way they deal with their issues, the way they cry or the way they go absolutely nuts when something doesn’t go their way, unconditional love is patient and , kind and compassionate in all life’s areas.
It gives space and holds space. It loves all that is, all that shall be and all that ever will be.
The last secret is the most important – And should never be forgotten.