21 DUMB REASONS TO CHEAT ON HIM...

1. Because
   you are GAY.


2. All
   your friends have done it and you don't want to be left out.


3. It's
   just sex AND you want to live a little.


4. Your
   boyfriend thinks he might be bisexual. 


5. You
   have a sex addiction. If that's not the case, it's still a good excuse to use
   should you ever get caught. 


6. You
   can't remember the last time you had GREATsex with him. 


7. Wrong
   number - but the voice on the other end of the line sounds so nice...You meet
   up for a quickie. 


8. The
   man is just so gorgeous - it would be a crime not to... 


9. You
   are on a diet and more sex you can get will burn the calories. 


10. Revenge
    if he cheated on you first. 


11. Every
    man should have some secrets. 


12. You
    are in a long-distance relationship and what he doesn’t won’t hurt him. 


13. You're
    stressed about your job, your friends are acting up and he won't stop nagging. 


14. You
    want to punish your partner. That's all. 


15. The other man has a nice place AND money to spear…and
    you've always wanted to get dirty with the finer things in life. 


16. You
    don’t LOVE him but don’t want to leave
    him. 


17. You're
    in the mood for an adventure. 


18. You're
    on a solo business trip and feeling lonely. 


19. You're
    nearing a mid-life OR quarter-life crisis. 


20. His
    sex drive is on cruise control. 


21. His
    dick is TOO small and you need so much
    more…

¿BLAME KATY PERRY?

 

The other day there was something
on the news that caught my attention; there was this report about girls that
are barely in their teens exploring their sexuality. Now I thought this was
interesting ESPECIALLY since I learn about a new term in the sexuality dictionary called HETEROFLEXIABLE. This simply means that a STRAIGHT individual who is
has/or is not opposed to having sexual relations with the same sex. This type
of sexual behavior is PREDOMINANTLY found in straight females who enjoy making out with other females. BUT IS THIS REALLY NEW…MORE
IMPORTANTLY WHO IS THE BLAME? It is believed that the
female’s sexual behavior is more influenced by cultural, situational AND even
educational factors. So given that today there is more visibility of same-sex
behavior, its likely there is an increase in young women experimenting with
same sex behavior and talking openly
about their experiments. It has certainly always been true that teen girls are
quick to pick up on the latest fads. Yet it seems that NO one
give one ounce of concern about young girls today following Miley Cyrus as long
as she doesn’t sing about sexuality which is a NORMAL thing @
that stage of anyone’s life. I applauded Katy for singing this song; moreover I
LOVE the fact that it is a HUGE hit. This shows us that there is
NOTHING unhealthy about a female exploring HER femininity. ISN’T IT INTERESTING HOW ANY
OTHER LABEL OTHER THAN HETEROSEXUAL DISTRESSES THE MASSES? Labels are such a BIG thing in our culture and before a child is born, everyone wants to know
if it's going to be a boy or girl ASSUMING that their sexuality
will be what the world says it should. But life works in a way that what we
think should happen doesn’t always go according to that ideology. So the CONSTANT worrying about a person’s sexual orientation is an exercise in futility.
Monitoring OR noticing signs of GAYNESS should just be seen as a NORMAL part of
finding out about the sexual-self. Puberty is already a time of turbulence. Traditionally,
we've tried to get a handle on human sexuality by trying to fit everything into
just a few simple categories, but it will NEVER be that simple. Katy
Perry’s song just shows us that we NEED to rediscover the TRUE human
development. I GET
THAT THIS IS SCARY, BECAUSE MOST PEOPLE THINK OF THEIR KIDS AS HETEROSEXUAL;
& ANY DIVERGENCE IS DAUNTING, EVEN FOR THE MOST LIBERAL OF US. BUT MORE
& MORE WE ARE GOING TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS, BECAUSE THE VARIOUS TYPE OF
SEXUALITY IS WAY TOO IMPORTANT TO BE CAST ASIDE & OVER LOOKED BY THE HETERO
WORLD.

HAPPY EARTH~DAY HERATIO

It is said that GRACE EXISTS INSIDE OF ALL OF US & AROUND US. It is MERELY our inner beauty that radiates outward, touching everyone we meet; and that is how I see you my friend. You are that unseen hand that comes from the divine, rising up what I need most. When I am lost OR looking for that EXTRA boost of confidence I can ALWAYS count on you to be there for me. You are that rain bringing relief to drought-ridden farm in the lives of so many. You represent the LOVE that resides between two people, that gift OR check that comes unexpectedly in the mail…You are that thriving element in a world of dualities AND challenges that I admire. The way you approach the hurdles of life says a lot about the man you are. I LOVE that you have NO problem defining who OR what you are in this world; and it is because of this I SINCERELY WISH YOU A HAPPY EARTH~DAY! FOR I KNOW THAT THE WORLD IS BETTER PLACE BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE…

HAPPY EARTH~DAY WAYNE

I
want to start off by wishing you a HAPPY
EARTH~DAY! This is your day and I hope you enjoy it to the fullest. I
sincerely hope that you use this day to reflect on the year that passed AND the one that has started…LORD KNOWS I HAVE! I find it interesting how we find ourselves @
the cross-roads of time and the decisions that we make today will have an
effect on our tomorrow. NONETHELESS,
you and I both know that I am YOUR
friend AND will always be and you cannot deny that. There are
times when you are called upon to be someone you are NOT and that isn’t something I am prepared to do and for that I am sorry.
You know that I will be honest with you and you know that isn’t what you want in
your life right now…To know that we are in this place where things aren’t
things says that you do NOT
understand OR know me…I will be BOLD and say I don’t think that you
care to. Nonetheless, I wish ONLY
good things for you…from the moment we met that was my intension. It is SO interesting how as we age we STILL look for others approval in order
to feel alive…human even…but what does it give us? You are @ a point in your
life when you should question why, when AND how. This realization needs to happen for you
before you loose EVERYTHING that you
hold near and dear to you. For some odd reason getting the short end of the
stick has such a tight a hold on your psyche that it feels like the REAL thing; but it is NOT! Hence I feel that YOU
need to heal what hurts AND free up the negative energy that is keeping you
in the same place year after year. The longer you sit on things, the harder it
is to work through, and the more likely it is that you will be forced to
acknowledge it as it makes itself known to you in ways you can't predict.
Rather than waiting for this to happen, I hope that you can empower yourself by
identifying the pain AND resolving to take action toward healing it. I
know that the VERY thought of this
brings up feelings of resistance, especially since your life is fine on the
surface. I know that it is HARD for
you to dig up the past and go into it unless you are being seriously
inconvenienced by the hurt. BUT WHAT
CHOICE DO YOU HAVE? The thing is, when we are carrying the burden of our
unprocessed pain, sooner OR later,
it will inconvenience us. So it pays to be brave AND proactive, so you can save yourself a lot of
future suffering AND free up the energy that is tied up in keeping the
pain down. It is time to that you walk with your head up, with a smile on your
face. In order for you to get there, you need to make some decisions. Whatever
path you choose, resolve to go deep into the pain AND set yourself free. Remember, it is never too
late in life to heal what hurts, and there is never a better time than now. So
as you read this and go about your life please remember that my thoughts are
just that MY thoughts, I only say
what I say because I see what is to come but I realize that you can’t make
someone want to do good by themselves…they have to want it…I believe that all
life is predestined and yours and mine follow that path…I believe that
sometimes you have to let someone go in order for them to come back…So take responsibility
for fulfilling your destiny…when you do you will see that you NOT only take fate into your own hands,
but also you become the hands of your own fate. Doorways inevitably open for
you to step through, and every choice you make will lead you to where you need
to be…SO whether YOU THINK I AM ON YOUR SIDE OR NOT,
WE BOTH KNOW THAT I AM…I AM ONE THE
MOST REAL, HONEST
& OPEN HUMAN YOU WILL EVER MEET IN YOUR LIFE…SO AS
YOU ENJOY YOUR DAY, PLEASE MAKE THIS THE START OF ACCEPTING & MAKING THAT
STEP TOWARDS MAKING YOURSELF WHOLE…YOU WILL BE SUCH A BETTER MAN IF YOU
DO…

I KNOW BUT...

I know my mother loves but…

Does she LOVE me? 

Am I but a memory,

Lost in time?

Trying to remember a time line

Maybe it’s just a sign

Of a life out of sync

Strange

How I can be so derange

And rearrange

This unreal reality

For I have entered a world

Another other

A world beyond my mother

Beyond safe…

Beyond smother

A world she knows NOTHING
about

And it suits her fine

The ONLY time she cares to
peep

Is to see what she can find

The whereabouts of my heart N’
soul

Doesn’t matter…

Now my nightmare is my
reality

A reality that burns so deep inside

And all I can do is hang onto the edge

As if my life
was a crowbar wedged

In between she
and I

And I in my mind

Find

Sometimes is
better to let go

Than be in
between the mind and the heart

For I have
wasted enough time

Suspending her
suspicions

And her wishful
thinking

I am happy to be
me

Though it is sad
to see,

That my mother
doesn’t REALLY LOVE ME!

© tgk

¿WHICH GAY IS BETTER?

Today I am
asking that you think about which persona represents the GAY community @ its best. I know that no two people are a like and
I don’t cover everyone, but I realize that we have a problem and I feel that it
starts with how we see ourselves AND other gay men within the community. So the
following are labels that are just off the top of my head that are commonly
used within the gay community. These are NOT
official labels; they just represent what is familiar and what I hear from
other gay men within the gay community… SO
WHICH GAY DO YOU THINK IS BETTER?

 THE SUGAR DADDY

THE BREEDER

THE MACHO GAY

THE AVERAGE GAY

THE DRAG QUEEN

THE PRETTY BOY

 THE STRAIGHT GAY

IN HARM'S WAY...

He
came upon it

 Searching for sex
He doesn’t care about his life
As long as he gets it
So wrong of him
Why belonged with meaningless sex?
Sex must be enjoy with someone he care
Trust his loving heart
He lusted after other men
It gets him all sorts of problems
Now he is HIV positive
Things has changed but NOT for the
better
He’s waiting for his salvation

The
bait is a nice thick dick

Said
he didn’t do UNSAFE sex
He was done taking chances of re-infection
Now he dances with dangerous sex
I hope he isn’t that stupid
If not, welcome to the same path

That
SO many took…

This
blog entry is about a friend of mine who is HIV+; and he represents what I consider to be THE problem with this disease. It seems that he and SO many other gay men out there has
this thing that makes them APATHETIC
about HIV. He is the THERE’S NOTHING
SWEETER THAN BEING F&CKED BY A BREEDER…ESPECIALLY WHEN HE ASKS kind of gay man. YOU KNOW THE KIND OF MAN THAT HAD SO MUCH THAT HE CANNOT REMEMBER WHO IT WAS WITH UNTIL HE
SEES THEM ON THE STREETS SOMEWHERE? THAT’S HIM! Now I am all supportive of him and
what he is going through but he is now doing something that I consider to be
wrong. Apparently he is messing around this guy from an old job of his and I am
SURE he did NOT tell him about his status. I’ve never met him NOR do I want to, however I have thought about calling him up and
just tell him to ask my friend about his HIV
status and tell him that he should get tested. I know if I did that I would
pretty much be signing his death warrant, but isn’t he doing the same to him? I
get that HIV isn’t as bad as it was
25 years ago and it is treated like a
long-term illness now, but I don’t feel that he has the right to bring
something like this to someone without their knowledge. I sometimes think that
I am living in this parallel universe OR that I am in some sort of hidden
camera show where I am being played. YES,
THAT’S IT…RIGHT? I mean how could he spread his legs for someone and NOT think that HIV is an issue? I guess something is WRONG with me because I can’t be apart of this lifestyle and NOT say OR do something. I mean HIV/AIDS
is over 25 years old and I feel that we should be asking ourselves what we can
do to help prevent the further spread of this disease instead of actually
spreading it. HIV like any other
social disease carries with it certain stigma. This stigma comes from fear,
ignorance about the disease, other people's views (mostly biased), AND religious damnation…& MEN SUCH AS HIM DON’T MAKE IT ANY BETTER! I FEEL THAT IT IS TIME
THAT PERSONS TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR STATUS & NOT BRING OTHERS IN ON THIS
DISEASE…I CAN’T HELP BUT WONDER IF I AM JUST AS BAD AS HE IS BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT
IS GOING ON WITH HIM, YET I DO NOTHING TO  WARN THE CURRENT D!CK THAT HE HAS IN HIS BED?