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Saturday, April 3, 2010

¿WINDOW SEAT ANYONE?

On March 13, 2010,^[19] Erykah Badu shed her clothes as she walked along a Dallas, Texas, sidewalk until she was nude at the site where President Kennedy was assassinated. Suddenly, a shot rang out as the song ended; Badu's head jerked back and she fell to the ground. The result was a controversial video for her song "Window Seat", which Badu said on her Twitter feed "was shot guerrilla style, no crew, 1 take, no closed set, no warning, 2 min., Downtown Dallas, then ran like hell."^[20] Children with their families could be seen nearby as Badu stripped without any permission in Dealey Plaza , a popular tourist spot since Kennedy's 1963 assassination.^[21] She tweeted it was a shot against “groupthink”.^[19]

On April 2, 2010, Badu was charged with disorderly conduct, a class C misdemeanor, when a witness came forward.

Her voice over says:

They play it safe. They are quick to assassinate what they do not understand. They move in packs, ingesting more and more fear with every act of hate on one another. They feel most comfortable in groups. Less guilt to swallow. They are us. This what we have become. Afraid to respect the individual...A single person within a circumstance can move one to change, to love ourselves, to EVOLVE.

This video is THE essence of something SO simple yet it is UTTERLY powerful! A pure example of ‘them’ trying to kill what they don’t understand. ‘They’ would say that her nudity is utterly distasteful and would REFUSE to consider looking @ such a work or art as anything else. I think it is phenomenally powerful what Ms. Badu has given us and it took courage, conviction AND huge set of balls to bestow such a gift on mankind. Here’s to EVOLUTION!

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE VIDEO?

Friday, April 2, 2010

¿IS IT CHEATING IF...?

CHEATING is an act of lying, deception, fraud, trickery, imposture, or imposition. Cheating characteristically is employed to create an unfair advantage, usually in one's own interest, and often at the expense of others,^[1] Cheating implies the breaking of rules. The term "cheating" is less applicable to the breaking of laws, as illegal activities are referred to by specific legal terminology such as fraud or corruption. Cheating is a primordial economic act: getting more for less, often used when referring to marital infidelity. A person who is guilty of cheating is generally referred to as a cheat (British English), or a cheater (American English).

So I’ve been wondering about the subject of cheating and I came up with 50 scenarios and I would LOVE to see if you think the scenarios are cheating or some exceptions could be made…

...YOU WATCH TWO PERSONS HAVE SEX BUT NOT PARTICIPATE @ ALL?

...YOU BECOME EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE THAT IS NOT YOUR PARTNER?

...YOU ONLY GIVE YOUR PARTNER THE OKAY TO SLEEP WITH SOMEONE ELSE TO SEE IF HE/SHE WOULD DO IT & THEY DO IT?

...YOU TELL YOUR PARTNER THAT YOU ARE GOING TO CHEAT ON HIM/HER AND YOU DO IT?

...YOU ARE ON A BREAK?

...YOU MASTUBATE WITH SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER ONLINE?

...YOU TALK DIRTY TO SOMEONE ONLINE?

...YOU HAVE PHONE SEX WITH SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER?

...YOU ARE JUST HORNY & YOUR PARTNER ISN’T AROUND TO RELIEVE YOU?

...YOUR PARTNER MAKES YOU FEEL INADEQUATE?

...YOU WANTED SOMETHING DIFFERENT?

...YOU ARE DRUNK & LET YOUR GUARD DOWN?

...YOU ARE A SEX ADDICT?

...YOU AREN’T GETTING ANY @ HOME?

...YOU ARE LONELY?

...YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE THAT IS THE OPPOSITE SEX OF YOUR PARTNER?

...YOU & SOMEONE THAT IS NOT YOUR PARTNER MASTURBATED IN THE SAME ROOM BUT NOT TOUCH EACH OTHER?

...YOU HAVE SEX WITH YOUR BOSS TO GET A PROMOTION?

...YOU DIDN’T GET AN STD?

...YOU DIDN’T CREATE LIFE?

…YOU USED PROTECTION?

...YOU TOLD YOUR PARTNER WHAT YOU WANT HE/SHE DIDN’T CARE TO ADDRESS THEM?

...YOU ALLOW SOMEONE ELSE TO KISS YOU?

...YOU ARE TRYING TO FIGURE OUT YOUR SEXUALITY BY HAVING SEX WITH BOTH MALE & FEMALE WHILE IN A RELATIONSHIP?

...YOU THINK ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE WHILE HAVING SEX WITH ...YOUR PARTNER?

...YOU GO TO A CLUB AND HAVE ORAL SEX WITH THE STRIPPER/GO GO DANCER?

...YOU CALL SOMEONE ELSE NAME DURING SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER?

...YOU START TO HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND STOP IN THE MIDDLE OF IT?

...YOU BREAK UP & A FEW DAYS LATER YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE?

...YOU HAVE ONE LAST FLING BEFORE GETTING MARRIED?

...YOU WERE DRUGGED & SOMEONE DID SEXUAL THINGS TO YOU?

...YOU & YOUR PARTNER ARE SWINGERS?

...YOU ARE A SEX WORKER & YOUR PARTNER DOES NOT KNOW?

...YOU KNOW ABOUT YOUR PARTNER’S INVOLVEMENT WITH SOMEONE ELSE & STAY WITH HIM/HER LIKE IT NEVER HAPPENED?

...YOU ARE OFFERED A MILLION BUCKS TO SPEND A NIGHT WITH SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER?

...YOU HAD SEX WITH SOMEONE OTHER THAN ...YOUR PARTNER TO LIFT THEIR SELF-ESTEEM?

...YOU HAVE MORE THAN ONE BOOTY CALL & NOT LET THEM KNOW ABOUT EACH OTHER?

...YOU HANG AROUND WITH SOMEONE THAT WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU DESPITE YOUR BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP?

...YOU HAD SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE & IT WAS HORRIBLE?

...YOU ACT OUT THE FETISHES YOUR PARTNER THINKS ARE TOO OUT THERE WITH SOMEONE ELSE?

FIST SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER?

...YOU PAY FOR SEX?

...YOU & YOUR MARRIED POKER BUDDIES END UP GETTING OFF WITH EACH OTHER ON A WHIM?

...YOU GO OUT TO F&CK SOMEONE ELSE BUT CHANGED YOUR MIND?

...YOU DO IT BECAUSE SOCIETY EXPECTS IT FROM YOU?

…YOU ARE SEXTING WITH SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER?

…YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP & HAVE SEX WITH YOUR LESBIAN FRIEND TO GIVE HER A BABY WITH YOUR PARTNER’S CONSENT?

…YOU RELY ON PORN TO GET YOU IN THE MOOD TO BE WITH YOUR PARTNER?

…YOU FIND OUT AN EX WAS GOING TO DIE AND YOU GRANT HIS/HER WISH TO HAVE WITH YOU BEFORE THEY DIE?

...YOU DON’T GET CAUGHT?

Thursday, April 1, 2010

¿GUESS WHO MISSED YOU?

TIME TO GET ALL CAUGHT UP...

Sunday, March 14, 2010

THEGAYTEKEEPER IS....

MY PC IS ACTING UP SO I AM FORCED TO TAKE A BREAK....TRY NOT TO MISS ME TOO MUICH!!!! L(O)L

Saturday, March 13, 2010

CHANTE'S GOT A MAN

"Chanté's Got a Man" is the first single from Chanté Moore's third album, This Moment Is Mine. It became Moore's first top-ten single on the Billboard Hot 100, reaching number ten. Featuring an interpolation of the number-one 1971 Osmonds single "One Bad Apple", the song earned a Soul Train Music Awardnomination for "Single of the Year, Female". It peaked at #10 on the U.S. Billboard Hot 100 chart.

Thursday, March 11, 2010

¡LOVE RETURNS!

@ EXACTLY 10:24 PM TONIGHT NOEL WILL GRACE THE BAHAMAS WITH HIS PRESENCE & MY SOUL WITH HIS LOVE! SO MUCH FOR LIVING APART TWOGETHER FOR 6 MONTHS...AREN'T WE JUST A COUPLE OF PUSSIES?

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

TWO SPIRITS

Why are people harassed, attacked, and killed simply for being who they are? How do these crimes affect society as a whole? And what do we do to end these tragedies? This powerful documentary—together with the project’s interconnected outreach components—place what occurred in Colorado in a universal context, illuminating one of the most complex issues of our day through the story of Fred Martinez.

The number of anti-LGBT incidents reported to the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs has risen in the past two years, which signals a retrograde environment where violent incidents that range from threats, harassment, and vandalism, to physical assault with weapons and vehicles, and escalate even to torture and murder are on the increase.

Fatal assaults against gender non-conforming people continue to rise, and many teens have been murdered in attacks motivated by their gender identity or gender expression--most of color, disadvantaged, and gay, lesbian, or transgender. Chillingly, offenders who were 18 years of age or under represent fully twenty percent of all offenders. There has also been a disturbing increase in gang-style violence, in which a group of perpetrators "hunt" someone they identify as LGBT, targeting them for harassment or violence.

One of the most important ways to change this dynamic within the culture is by telling the stories that humanize the issues and transform fear and bigotry into insight and compassion.